Feel calm, confident, and fully supported

Personalised Midwifery Care – every step of the way

Independent midwife offering calm, continuous care across Norfolk and Suffolk — helping you feel truly listened to, safe, and confidently supported through pregnancy, birth, and beyond.

The Difference of Compassionate, Continuous Midwifery

Every family’s journey is unique – but what so many are seeking is the same: a midwife who listens, who’s there when it matters, and who helps you feel confident in your choices.
Here’s what you can expect when we work together.

A Midwife Who Truly Listens

Your voice matters. Appointments are unhurried and centred around you. You’ll have space to share openly, met with empathy, patience, and kindness.

Calm, Consistent Support

No more seeing different faces each time. You’ll be supported by one familiar midwife – building real trust and helping you feel safe and relaxed.

Confidence in Your Choices

You’ll receive honest, evidence-based information tailored to you, never pressured. Just the support you need to make informed, empowered decisions.

Services

Let’s work together

Full Pregnancy, Birth & Postnatal Care

From the first weeks of pregnancy to those precious early days with your baby, this complete care package offers calm, consistent support every step of the way. You’ll receive personalised visits in the comfort of your own home, continuous care through labour and birth, and gentle postnatal check-ins tailored to your recovery. No rushed appointments, no unfamiliar faces – just one midwife walking beside you throughout your journey.

One-Off Midwife Consultations

Sometimes, you just need a space to talk things through – no pressure, no long-term commitment. Whether you’re feeling unsure, overwhelmed, or simply want a second opinion, these online consultations offer personalised, professional guidance when it matters most. Ideal for planning birth preferences, debriefing past experiences, navigating NHS care, or finding calm clarity during pregnancy or postpartum.

What my clients say

“an amazingly calm influence. My partner said you could’ve told him the hospital was burning down and because of you he would’ve stayed calm”

“your listening ear, advice, support, and really strong advocacy skills were enormously amazing.”

“you made me feel strong, supported and safe throughout my entire labour”

“Stumbling across Kirsti felt like fate to me, a breath of fresh air to find someone who empathised with my desire for a natural, non-medicalised birth, preferably at home”​

“Thank you for practising in the most beautiful way. Patience, kindness, trusting, encouraging, and supportive. What a gift you have for birth work”

Hello. 

Meet Kirsti — The Compassionate Midwife

Hi, I’m Kirsti – a mother of three, former nanny, and independent midwife offering calm, personalised care across Norfolk and Suffolk.

After six years working in the NHS, I chose to step into independent midwifery to offer the kind of care I believe every family deserves: time-rich, deeply personal, and centred around you – not the system

Whether you’re preparing for your first baby or seeking a gentler, more supported experience after a previous birth, I’m here to walk beside you with warmth, clinical expertise, and a truly listening ear.

When I’m not with clients, you’ll usually find me baking, walking in nature, or enjoying quiet time with my family. I believe calm, steady care changes everything – and that’s what I bring to every family I support.

Support right into your inbox

Before the Waves: A Peaceful Pause Before Birth

A free 5-day email series from The Compassionate Midwife — created to gently prepare you for birth with calm, clarity, and connection.

You’ll receive:

  • Daily guidance on relaxation, aromatherapy, food, affirmations, and journaling
  • Simple ways to steady your mind and body
  • Printable affirmations & journaling pages
  • An invitation to plan your birth with confidence and support

Ready to feel calm, supported, and truly heard?

Let’s start with a free, no-pressure chat — just a gentle chat to explore if we’re the right fit.